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Selling the House in a Bad Market

· September 7, 2009

One of the dilemmas that divorcing couples are currently faced with in this rough economy is how to deal with the marital homestead. In a depressed real estate market, it is not an optimum time to sell the house. But selling the house is a necessity for many couples in which neither spouse can afford the house on their own; particularly if the couple is behind on payments and/or the house's current value is LESS than the mortgage balance.

The upside of selling in a bad market is BUYING in a bad market. If both spouses are going to be able to buy into the bad market, then selling ultimately is not a drawback. This requires either that the house proceeds – though lower than desired – are still sufficient for each spouse to make a down payment OR the individual spouses may obtain financial backing (from a bank or family member) to make the down payment on a new residence.

For many couples, the answer is to find a way to hold on to the house until the market recovers. In many cases, that involves one spouse maintaining the homestead, possibly at a deficit; and the other spouse renting, possibly also at a deficit. It is difficult for the spouse who maintains the homestead to wait – and hope – for the day that the homestead has gained back the lost equity. It is difficult for the spouse who does not maintain the homestead, because the value of their interest in the home is determined at the time of the divorce, an inopportune time in this economy.

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Moving Out of State With Minor Children

Posted by Gerald Williams

· June 11, 2009

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One important change in Minnesota law in recent years pertains to changing the state of residence of minor children. Previously, Minnesota was one of a minority of U.S. states to allow a custodial parent to move with a child to another state unless the non-moving parent proved that the move was contrary to the child’s interests. That is, previously, the non-moving parent had the burden of proof, and if the burden of proof was unmet, the moving parent was granted the right to change the child’s state of residence.

The current law in Minnesota now matches the majority of other jurisdictions: the moving parent has the burden of proof, to show that the move is consistent with the child’s interests. Minnesota Statute Section 518.175, subd. 3, provides as follows:

The parent with whom the child resides shall not move the residence of the child to another state except upon order of the court or with the consent of the other parent, if the other parent has been given parenting time by the decree. If the purpose of the move is to interfere with parenting time given to the other parent by the decree, the court shall not permit the child’s residence to be moved to another state.
The court shall apply a best interests standard when considering the request of the parent with whom the child resides to move the child’s residence to another state. The factors the court must consider in determining the child’s best interests include, but are not limited to:
- the nature, quality, extent of involvement, and duration of the child’s relationship with the person proposing to relocate and with the non-relocating person, siblings, and other significant persons in the child’s life;
- the age, developmental stage, needs of the child, and the likely impact the relocation will have on the child’s physical, educational, and emotional development, taking into consideration special needs of the child;
- the feasibility of preserving the relationship between the non-relocating person and the child through suitable parenting time arrangements, considering the logistics and financial circumstances of the parties;
- the child’s preference, taking into consideration the age and maturity of the child;
- whether there is an established pattern of conduct of the person seeking the relocation either to promote or thwart the relationship of the child and the nonrelocating person.

It is important to consider that, in many cases, the burden of proof is not dispositive. If the moving parent has a compelling basis for moving the child, the court would permit the move, whether the moving parent or non-moving parent had the burden of proof. Conversely, if the moving parent has a weak case for moving, it would not matter whether the moving parent or the non-moving parent had the burden of proof; the request to move would be denied. The recent shift in the law impacts those cases in which the moving parent arguably has a strong basis for moving the child, but the non-moving parent has an equally strong basis for opposing the move.

Moreover, as with most other custody and parenting issues, the family court is likely to rely on the observations and recommendations of a custody expert or parenting neutral in determining the relative merits of a moving parent’s contentions versus the non-moving parent’s oppositions.

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Categories : Child Custody, Divorce, General Family Law, Guardian ad litem, Parenting Time

Don’t Take (All) the Money and Run

Posted by Gerald Williams

· May 6, 2009

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At the outset of a divorce, should you clean out the joint account? Or should you refrain from cleaning out the joint account, just to see the account cleaned out by your ex?

Suppose there is $10,000 in the account. If you take the $10,000, your spouse is likely to cry foul, and you may well live to regret what can be perceived as an act of bad faith. But if you do nothing, can you trust that your spouse won't take all the funds? Will it be sufficient consolation to you that your spouse has painted himself or herself as a scoundrel? (That won't pay the rent.)

If you feel like you must take some action, rather than doing nothing, you might consider withdrawing $5,000 (half the balance) and placing it into a separate account solely in your name. Your spouse has much less reason to cry foul. But you also pre-empt your spouse from unfairly secreting all of the joint funds without your knowledge.

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Why Family Law Mediation Is a Good Idea

Posted by Gerald Williams

· April 19, 2009

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Family law mediation is a forum in which a neutral party (the mediator) meets with parties to help facilitate a settlement of the disputed issues or, in the alternative, to rule out settlement exhaustively, and help the parties reach an impasse. The mediator has no authority to make a decision or impose something upon one of the parties against their will; and the process is confidential.

There are three basic reasons that family law mediation is a good idea.

First, if the mediator is successful in facilitating a resolution, the case concludes without protracted litigation.
Second, most family court judges will insist that there be efforts to settle the case out of court before proceeding with trial.
Third, it is a helpful trial preparation tool.

It is important to note that the latter two reasons are applicable if mediation is unsuccessful, that there is more to proceeding with mediation than getting the case settled. If you appear before the family court for trial, you are likely to be in better standing with the family court judge if the judge knows that the court’s decision is necessary, and the dispute is compelling enough not to have been resolved in mediation. The impasse reached in mediation is more meaningful than the impasse reached when a couple with communication problems stops speaking to each other.

Finally, for purposes of trial preparation, mediation allows the courtroom disputes to be narrowed, and more sharply defined. The confidential communications, while inadmissible in court, do provide some insight about the strengths and weaknesses of your case and the opposing party’s case. The family court judge who decides the case is likely to navigate through similar logic, questions and considerations that play out in the mediation sessions. The trial of a case in which mediate was unsuccessfully attempted is more effective for the parties and the court than a trial proceeding that transpires from “square one.”

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Financial Attrition

Posted by Gerald Williams

· April 7, 2009

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The goal of family courts is to render court orders (or approve parties' stipulations) that address a child's best interests (regarding custody and parenting time) or a fair and equitable settlement (regarding property and finances). In the process of a family law dispute, one would like to think that both sides have a solid basis for their arguments, and that if the dispute persists through the court process, that it is the result of good faith and meritorious claims. Or, if the dispute does not persist through a contested court process, that it has to do with one party having a clearly stronger claim as to the child's best interests, or what is fair and equitable in the circumstances.

Unfortunately, in some instances, the outcome of the dispute is based on something that is not connected to a child's best interests or what is fair and equitable. Instead it is based on financial attrition. That is, on one party having the financial means to pursue the dispute, regardless of the merits of that party's position, while the other party lacks the means to advance their argument. If one party has the funds to hire an attorney to proceed in the dispute (with or without a solid basis on the merits) and the other party does not, the result will not necessarily be proper justice.

As an example, if a parenting neutral recommends a certainly custody arrangement or parenting plan, and one of the parties is aggrieved by that recommendation, that party may hire a custody expert to contest the neutral recommendations. Usually, a party cannot do that without substantial financial investment. Oftentimes, when someone challenges neutral recommendations, while they may have the financial means to hire the expert, the facts and circumstances do not warrant overturning the neutral recommendations. Yet, the party favored by the recommendations may lack the financial means to defend against the challenge of the aggrieved party. The outcome of the dispute may be different from what is truly in the child's best interests, simply because one party had funds to fight, and other party did not.

There is an "up" side to financial attrition, as well. Someone who lacks a good-faith argument for their position, but also lacks the means to advance the argument, is foreclosed from manipulating the court process to gain unfair advantage.

What makes the issue of financial attrition even more complex is this: sometimes an argument clearly has good faith, or clearly LACKS good faith, but other times, it is not so clear. And someone may think their opponent is acting in bad faith, but the family court judge sees it differently. Also, oftentimes, it is clear that one party has substantially greater means than the other; but not always. (Someone with multimillionaire parents theoretically has the means to invest substantial sums in a family court dispute, but not if the parents are unwilling to contribute to the effort.) Even less clear is whether the party with greater means has a misguided agenda (as opposed to an argument based upon genuine good faith).

In the end, financial attrition may be in the eye of the beholder. Whether real or perceived, it is an unwelcome factor in the family court process.

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Veto Power

Posted by Gerald Williams

· March 14, 2009

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If you have an issue or dispute that must be addressed by the family court, in almost all instances you have one or more opportunities, before the family court issues a decision, to reach a resolution with the opposing party, outside of court. When the dispute is submitted to the mediation process, you have something that you lose if the decision is left to the family court judge or referee: veto power.

In mediation, the mediator does not have the authority to impose a resolution or court order upon you against your will. If a compromise must be reached, or a concession must be made, you have the power to assent, or veto, the compromise or concession. In many cases, you are better off to agree to a known concession than to have an unknown concession imposed upon you by the family court.

The point at which it becomes an exercise in futility to resolve the matter outside of court is when it is worth the risk of what the court might impose upon you. That is, when the concessions that you must make in order to reach the out-of-court resolution are so substantial that you are likely to fare better in court. Most disputes can result in a mutually satisfactory settlement in which both parties make reasonable, measured concessions. If it is necessary for you to concede something, it is better to be able to veto the worst scenarios, in favor of something more palatable.

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Financial Early Neutral Evaluation

Posted by Gerald Williams

· February 16, 2009

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Financial Early Neutral Evaluation (FENE) is a process that is similar to Early Neutral Evaluation for custody and parenting time issues (which is sometimes referred to as Social Early Neutral Evaluation (SENE), to distinguish it from Financial Early Neutral Evaluation). The FENE model does not contemplate a team of two evaluators, as in SENE; instead there is one evaluator handling a FENE process.

The “early” aspect of FENE is important, because financial disputes in family law can be costly and time-consuming. If the parties engage in the FENE process early on, they may save a great deal of time, energy and money, and still obtain a fair resolution.

The financial evaluator gathers the information about the dispute that the evaluator needs to address the issue. This is very helpful in the financial arena, because oftentimes parties do not know the difference between relevant and irrelevant financial data. The financial evaluator has the insight, and the neutrality, to help determine what financial data is needed, and what is not needed.

As in the case of Early Neutral Evaluation regarding parenting issues, in FENE, the evaluator can help facilitate a resolution and/or provide their neutral view of how the court might address the financial issues in a courtroom dispute. Therefore, if the FENE process does not result in resolution, parties likely leave the process ahead of where they were at the beginning: with an impartial assessment of what data is relevant, as well as an impartial assessment of the substantive financial issues.

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Dividing Personal Property

Posted by Gerald Williams

· January 14, 2009

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When a couple divorces, the personal property must be divided. That includes households goods and furnishings, and general “stuff” in the home. While the division of items can often be a contentious subject, family court judges discourage spouses from devoting too much time and emotion (and expense) to it.

In many cases, the spouses divide the personal property when they establish separate households. But in other cases, a spouse who has departed from the marital home may have living arrangements that are temporary, or lack sufficient space to accommodate half of the couple’s belongings. If one spouse has all (or nearly all) the personal property, there are several common resolutions, other than renting storage space. The spouses may agree to an itemized division, memorialized in writing, to be implemented on a certain date, or within a certain time period. It may be agreed that one spouse is keeping all, or nearly all, the property items (because the other spouse doesn’t really want a lot of “stuff” anyway), the parties agree on a reasonable value for the items, and that value is accounted for in the overall division of assets and liabilities. In some cases, a mediator or arbitrator is appointed to oversee the parties taking turns choosing items, one by one. A garage sale, and division of proceeds, is a common idea that is not commonly implemented. (The property items usually have more value to one or both spouses than they do to any third-party willing-buyers.)

If the spouses must incur legal fees in a dispute about personal property, there may be a danger of spending more in legal fees than one would spend in replacing the disputed property items.

There are family court anecdotes about judges unhappy with couples bickering over the stuff — such as ordering one party to divide the items into two groups and allowing the OTHER party to choose one of the groups of items. Or threatening to toss a disputed item out a fourth story window if the parties do not quickly resolve the dispute on their own. In the end, it is better if the division of personal property is resolved without the need for the family court to make a ruling.

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Domestic Abuse Order for Protection Proceedings

Posted by Gerald Williams

· December 4, 2008

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When a domestic abuse case comes before the family court, the responding party has three choices:

1. Admit the allegations of abuse (resulting in issuance of the requested Order for Protection);

2. Deny the allegations and proceed with an evidentiary hearing (usually scheduled for a day one to two weeks later, but occasionally takes place later the same day of the admit/deny hearing);

3. Deny the allegations, but assent to the issuance of the Order for Protection. In this instance, the court enters the Order for Protection without a finding of abuse, and the Order pre-empts future contact and/or abusive actions without regard for what happened in the past.

If there is an evidentiary hearing, the court considers the testimony of both parties, and any other witnesses or evidence, and decides whether to issue the Order for Protection.

If there are pending marriage dissolution or child custody proceedings involving the same family, the district court judge in the domestic abuse action will usually give consideration to that, and narrowly tailor the provisions of any Order for Protection so that the dissolution or custody proceedings are not impacted greatly by the domestic abuse action.

The advantages of assenting to the Order include avoiding the airing of "dirty laundry" at an evidentiary hearing, as well as the risk of the court deciding in favor of the petitioning party. The disadvantages of assenting to the Order include the concern of violating the terms of the Order (even inadvertantly), and the chilling effect that such an Order has on communication if the parties have minor children and/or if the parties are negotiating the terms of their marriage dissolution.

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Judges, Referees and Child Support Magistrates

Posted by Gerald Williams

· November 6, 2008

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If you appear in family court in Minnesota, or submit a matter to the family court for review or consideration, it will be handled by a family court judge, a family court referee or a child support magistrate. Most family court hearings are presided over by judges.

The involvement of referees is limited to certain counties (i.e., Hennepin and Ramsey Counties). In those counties, some family law cases are heard and decided by judges and some are heard and decided by referees. A referee has the same authority as a judge, but the referee’s signed orders must also be signed by a judge. (The fact that a judge signs the order does not mean that a separate hearing before the judge is required.) A party who objects to a referee’s order must obtain review from the Court of Appeals. (Years ago, a party who objected to a referee’s orders could obtain review of the referee’s order by a family court judge. That process is no longer available.)

The involvement of child support magistrates is limited to certain cases involving only child support (i.e., those cases in which the county is providing child support enforcement services). All Minnesota counties have child support magistrates. A party who desires review of a child support magistrate’s order must seek that relief from the Court of Appeals.

If the case is not located in a county that has referees; pertains to a child support in which the county is not providing enforcement services; or involves issues other than child support, the case will be heard and decided by a family court judge.

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